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The reason we don't make ourselves known is simple - Many LDS will consider our opposition to the current policy as being disloyal to the Church. This isn't a valid or reasonable assumption, however. Journalist Edward R. Murrow, in his broadcast critique of Senator Joseph McCarthy's campaign against "The Red Menace", stated, "We must not confuse dissent with disloyalty." Dwight D. Eisenhower in a speech at Columbia University in 1954 agreed saying, "May we never confuse honest dissent with disloyal subversion."

Joseph Smith said, "If I esteem mankind to be in error, shall I bear them down? No. I will lift them up, and in their own way too, if I cannot persuade them my way is better; and I will not seek to compel any man to believe as I do, only by the force of reasoning, for truth will cut its own way."
(Joseph Smith, Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, selected and arranged by Joseph Fielding Smith [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1976], 313.)

President Hugh B. Brown, in his book, "An Abundant Life", gives a number of quotes regarding the free exchange of thoughts and ideas, free from threats or interference. Consider these three -

"Even in our own church men and women take issue with one another and contend for their own interpretations. This free exchange of ideas is not to be deplored as long as men and women remain humble and teachable. Neither fear of consequence or any kind of coercion should ever be used to secure uniformity of thought in the church. People should express their problems and opinions and be unafraid to think without fear of ill consequences." (at p.138)

"I admire men and women who have developed the questing spirit, who are unafraid of new ideas as stepping stones to progress. We should, of course, respect the opinions of others, but we should also be unafraid to dissent - if we are informed. Thoughts and expressions compete in the marketplace of thought, and in that competition truth emerges triumphant. Only error fears freedom of expression." (at p.137)

"I have been very grateful that the freedom, dignity, and integrity of the individual are basic in church doctrine. We are free to think and express our opinions in the church. Fear will not stifle thought. God himself refuses to trammel free agency even though its exercise sometimes teaches painful lessons. Both creative science and revealed religion find their fullest and truest expression in the climate of freedom." (at p.137)

Despite the above, many will want us subjected to "Church Discipline" possibly facing being either disfellowshiped or excommunicated. Edward R. Murrow, in that same speech, stated further, "We must remember always that accusation is not proof and that conviction depends upon evidence and due process of law." Punishing people must be based on facts rather than mere accusations of apostasy by those in authority. We welcome those who disagree with us to examine our evidence, quotes, scriptures, etc...and to offer evidence of our alleged error. We will gladly recant any position which can be shown to be in error. We hope to have civil and reasoned exchanges with those whose views differ from our own.

Despite dissent not being disloyalty nor accusations being proof of wrong doing, Church disciplinary councils have a much lower "burden of proof" in finding someone guilty of apostasy. The "Church Handbook of Instruction" policy manual discusses charges warranting "Church Discipline" (punishments).

On page 95, it defines "Apostasy" as follows -

"Apostasy

As used here, apostasy refers to members who:
1. Repeatedly act in clear, open, and deliberate public opposition to the Church or its leaders.
2. Persist in teaching as Church doctrine information that is not Church doctrine after they have been corrected by their bishops or higher authority
3. Continue to follow the teachings of apostate sects (such as those that advocate plural marriage) after being corrected by their bishop or higher authority.

In such cases, excommunication may be necessary if repentance is not evident after counseling and encouragement. "

Please note that presenting evidence of the Church not being in compliance with the scriptures is NOT a defense against the charge of apostasy per #1 above. Being doctrinally correct doesn't matter. One can be excommunicated for apostasy even if they are objectively telling the truth if that truth is contrary to any given Church policy or position.

The Book of Mormon gives an example of, and model for, our position of anonymity -

In Mosiah 17:2, Alma defends Abinadi against unrighteous charges. Alma's unpopular position caused the leaders to desire to persecute him and he fled and hid (v3-4). Alma went and taught his positions privately, rather than openly, in order to avoid being persecuted by the king (Mosiah 18:3). The king heard about Alma's success and those siding with the king, rather than the truth, helped him find Alma so that Alma could be persecuted more (v31-34).

We too are teaching an unpopular, yet scripturally sound, position. Those of us who have spoken openly have been persecuted in various ways such as having been released from callings of responsibility and even having temple recommends revoked. Look here for a number of examples. Continuing to speak out publicly will lead to more severe forms of "Church Discipline" such as disfellowshipment or excommunication. We, like Alma, choose to teach privately, rather than openly, to avoid this.

If we are correct, yet excommunicated, it allows other faithful LDS to dismiss our claims without feeling the need to examine our evidence. Many feel that people are wrong by definition if they have been excommunicated for apostasy. We are disloyal. Being excommunicated if one is right is a classic example of " unrighteous dominion" if the leaders fail to examine the evidence or dismiss it as wrong simply because the Brethren say it is wrong. " Unrighteous dominion" occurs when leaders try to "exercise control or dominion or compulsion upon the souls of the children of men, in any degree of unrighteousness". Knowingly punishing people for telling the truth is, by definition, unrighteous. D&C 121:41 says, "No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long- suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned;" If leaders feel that we are wrong, we invite them to "reason together" with us and using "gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned" objectively show us the error of our ways.

We LDS have a hymn, Oh Say, What Is Truth?, which has the following line -

"Yes, say, what is truth? 'Tis the brightest prize To which mortals or Gods can aspire..."

Truth reigns supreme. It is not to be ignored if it conflicts with the personal opinions of anyone, even the Church's leadership.

Because we hold the truth to be supreme, we will gladly recant our position. Because we are devout LDS, we are grieved and saddened to feel that our leaders don't share our view of the scriptures, freedom, and equality in this regard. We would be grateful to be objectively shown the error of our ways and how our logic and scriptural interpretation is faulty. We would gladly recant our position and support the Church's efforts in this area. Unfortunately, we don't expect thoughtful and reasoned responses from those in authority. We fully expect to be ignored and to get hate mail from the rank and file LDS filled with name calling yet precious little reasoned debate. We pray that we are wrong in these assumptions.